Raising children is a natural task that is difficult as well as enjoyable. The child experiences the unique difficulties of each period. However, in response to the age-specific attitudes of the child to parents important tasks fall. Every child lives development period shows different reactions against. These reactions are often temporary. However, if these negative behaviors do not pass in the expected time, they become hanging on to the next development period and continue at later ages. In this case, parents should closely monitor the child, investigate the cause of the problem and help solve it.
Adjustment disorders in children It is divided into three stages. Adjustment disorders in infants, Adjustment disorders in children, Adolescence and later adjustment disorders. The advanced stage of adjustment disorder is called personality disorder in the next stage of behavior disorder. Adaptation disorders are temporary and depending on the circumstances, the situation can be improved when the conditions disappear.
Adjustment Disorder in Infants
The first symptom of adjustment disorder in infants aged 0-1 years is called vomiting. The baby can vomit all the time for no reason. This situation is due to the disorder of the relationship between the mother and the child, the mother being constantly tense, restless and not approaching the child with love. The baby can feel the mother's tension and expresses this distress by vomiting. This does not apply to every baby. This type of vomiting is not in the form of occasional vomiting. The baby can vomit 5-6 times a day. Nutritional status and development may be impaired. If vomiting begins, a doctor is taken to a child psychiatrist if nothing can be found. If the condition becomes chronic, it can be permanent in the child.
The second reason for the adjustment disorder is the s three-month colic s. The baby cries continuously because it is in constant pain. As she cries, the baby's mother constantly feeds her, thinking that the baby is hungry. This increases the pain by indigestion in the undigested baby.
The third reason is eczema. It can be seen in babies at 5-6 months. When there is no reason, eczema occurs on the back of the neck, armpit and groin. This situation is seen in babies of families who are constantly nervous and restless. Eczema occurs as an expression of tension in the baby.
Adjustment Disorders in Children
Childhood starts from 2 years of age to adolescence. From the age of two, children continue to develop their behaviors from the period they are in. Your two-year-old child, who has had anger attacks, will become a different child after this period. However, the next period brings different behaviors. Parents often complain that they cannot recognize this child. If parents know the child's developmental stages and normal responses, they will better understand which behavior falls into the definition of adjustment disorder. According to experts, when the child encounters a problem, he can return to the safest period for himself and choose a behavior from that period. The child may have difficulties in the process in which he / she tries to adapt to the environment and reacts to it as adaptation disorder. For example, eating nails, aggression. However, these problems can be solved through a loving and harmonious family relationship.
Parents need to be cautious if their meal turns into a fight, if your child is in a state of constant aggression, behaving negatively, such as lying and unaware. Most simple 'mischiefIf these behaviors, which are placed behind the motives, are not taken under control, they can be permanent in the child and turn into personality disorder in advanced ages.
Eating Nail in Children
Eating nails is usually not seen before the age of 5-6. Because children before this age, he did not have enough teeth and his oral abilities were not developed. When the child is not exposed to mental stress and distress, eating nails occurs. If this behavioral disorder which occurs in the children of parents who cannot communicate with their children is not prevented, it will continue until adolescence. Eating nails generally results from a lack of confidence.
Aggression in children
Aggression is actually an innate impulse in every human being. Research on this subject reveals that parents' negative attitudes towards the child may be considered as the behavioral disorder of aggression. Unnecessarily preventing the child's behavior, criticizing the child's behavior and wishes, mocking him, and punishing him frequently can lead to aggression in the child. Blocked, criticized, ridiculed and punished, the child reacts with an aggressive attitude towards both himself and his environment. Anger attacks are seen as hitting, pulling hair, biting oneself. He reacts to his environment by throwing away his hands, biting the next one, forging other children and breaking toys.
Lying in Children
Children can lie because they did not acquire the concept of reality at a very young age. A three-year-old cannot distinguish what is real, what is imagination and lie. Describes the events he created in the world of imagination as if they were real. These are not lies. The child starts to lie at the age of 6-7 when he starts to socialize. Experts lie under fear and fear that lies. Children often lie to gain superiority, to avoid punishment or to attract attention. Lying is more common in children with mental dissatisfaction.
Theft in Children
A child's behavior theft a sense of ownership must have formed. For a two-year-old, each toy or item is his own. A child around the age of three knows that some things belong to him, but he cannot resist the urge to receive. It is not an attempt to steal children until they are 6-7 years old. Stealing can occur as a behavioral disorder after age 8-9. This occurs in children whose physical and mental needs are not fully met.
Hair Cutting in Children
It is more common in girls who are one or two years old. Children often pulls your hair and tear off. This is a movement that the child does to overcome stress. He makes these movements especially tired and sleepy. According to experts, the biggest reason for this behavior is that the emotional connection between mother and child is not fully established.